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Extract from: Trevor Byard "More
Merriment - writ in remembrance", Neptune Press,
Newtown, Victoria, Australia, 1984 pp.196-199
OBITUARY - ELIZABETH TREBILCOCK (nee Gilbert)
Born Cornwall, October 12, 1814.
Died Forth, Tasmania, June 7, 1898. Aged 84.
We have just laid in God's little acre, hard by the main road between
Hamilton on Forth and Ulverstone, the last mortal remains of the dear
old Mother of Israel whose name appears above, one who for a period of
over sixty years was a sincere and devoted member of the Wesleyan
Methodist Church and during a long and chequered life 'adorned the
doctrine of God her Saviour in all things'. In her early life brought up
in gay and Godless family, Elizabeth Gilbert (her maiden name) tho'
possessed of lively and volatile disposition, was so graciously visited
by the Holy Spirit that she was led to see her sinful state by nature
and under the selfsame influence at a service conducted by the Rev. W.
Blamey (a mighty man as a revivalist) in'St Columb Chapel, Cornwall',
was led to a decision for Christ, and so clearly was there revealed to
her the vanity and insufficienty of those worldly anlusements that had
been her passion and delight, that she at once renounced them and chose
to suffer affliction with the people of God rather than enjoy these
pleasures. She was then just eighteen years old; none of her friends
were Methodists, her parents being nominally of the established Church,
and her father vowed that none of her Methodist notions should be
brought to their house. However, the influence of the great change
wrought in Lizzie was so apparent that in a short time the aged father
and other members of the family rejoiced in the same salvation.
In the year 1836, being then twenty-two years old, she was united in
marriage to Thomas Glanvil Trebilcock, and as all who visited that
hospitable home testified, the union was a most happy one. Her husband
was a most earnest and devout Christian, ruling his house well, and
walking blameless in the sight of the Lord; in disposition he was
complement of his wife, being staid, quiet, reserved, cultivating always
the devotional side of religion, while hers was the active side. He was
a most useful and effective class leader for many years.
In the year 1843, owing to the inducement of a brother-in-law who had
emigrated to Van Diemen's Land some years before, also a friend who had
returned from thence to Cornwall on a visit, Mr Trebilcock resolved to
emigrate also, and a passage was taken in the Brig'Indian'. The party
embarked at Falmouth in August, and after a voyage of over eighteen
weeks landed in Launceston on the 3l st of December, 1843, just in time
to see the old year out and launch into fresh surroundings with the new.
Fancy what that voyage meant; can we in these days of large steam ships
and quick passages imagine a young mother of 29 with a family of six
children, the eldest only seven years, pent up in a little vessel only a
trifle over 200 tons, for nearly five months, and over twenty other
passengers. However, the strong, active, tactful spirit was equal to the
task, and notwithstanding that she suffered from distressing forms of
sick headaches her buoyancy and cheerfulness made the protracted voyage
not only tolerable but happy and enjoyable.
In 1852 Mrs Trebilcock sustained the great sorrow of her life in the
early death ofher husband, and now at the age of38, with ten of her
children, the eldest not yet sixteen; and in a most unsettled state of
society owing to the gold discoveries in Victoria, she finds herself in
what many would call most adverse circumstances. Her farm which was a
large dairy one near Launceston and now most lucrative, and which she
could have managed without much difficulty, has been relet over her
head. She has notice to quit, and seems, humanly speaking, in sore
straits. She has to make a fresh home in new surroundings, but she is
young and brave and resourceful, and the very woman so fearful of bush
life that she would not go back into the country when with a husband to
protect, now counts not the cost, and in a month has bought goodwill and
growing crops of a farm near Deloraine, 'Drumreagh', and soon the family
is settled there.
At this time there were no regular Wesleyan services at this new
township. Occasionally one had been held by the late Henry Reed, Esq.,
when on his way to his estate at Wesleydale, but at no stated times;
however, a few Methodist families from Canada settled there. (Messrs
Brown, Mulligan, and Elliot.) Cottage services were held, and bye and
bye the present Church followed. 'Drumreagh Farm' was well known by the
young Ministers (Revs. Rigg, Crisp, Lelean, Abel, Orton, and others).
They found it a home; the mother, a mother to them; and they could
testify to its open handed hospitality.
A few years later Mrs Trebilcock bought a farm at Forth, adjoining
Canadian friends before mentioned, all wild dense forest for miles. Soon
sufficient clearing was done for a house, and in 1859 the family removed
thence. On the sea beach facing Bass Strait a rude little Chapel with
its slab seats had been put up and regular services were held. This was
no ordinary missioning of a new place, these families took their
religion there with them and at once entered into the wealth of
spiritual privileges they brought. True it was a rude sanc1uary, true
they had no minister, but they had the presence of the Great Head of the
Church and the power of the Holy Spirit. There were wholehearted
Christian men and women all around whose hearts God had touched, hence
it became a Church at once. There were local preachers, class leaders,
praying people; the thing at once a live going concern ready for any
demands, so no wonder the great revivals came in after years.
In 1861. under the administration of the Rev. R.O. Cook, there was a
gracious visitation. and the widow's heart danced with joy as she saw
all her children together with many others, savingly converted. Soon her
two sons, Thomas and Phillip, began preaching, and have continued to do
so till now. It may here be mentioned that three of her daughtcrs are
married to Ministers - the Revs. R.O. Cook, E.W. Nye, and W.K. Mather;
and two others to local preachers now of over 30 years standing; besides
several grandchildren engaged in both Ministerial and local work. For
thus she magnified the grace of God; for years she had sowed; now
reaping had come, or at least part of it.
In 1886, owing to increasing years and the distance of the old 'Beach
Chapel', she gave up the farm and went to Hamilton on Forth to reside
with her lately widowed daughter (Mrs Capt. Thomson). Here she was close
to our Church and became a most regular attendant at all the means
ofgrace; but now being over three score and ten, the busy active brain
is not so keen, the memory is failing, and the Minister of these later
years knows not the clear headed woman of years gone by. It is eventide,
the sun is sinking behind the hill. Still as the ruins betoken the
massive structure that had been, so the years of four score and more
revealed somewhat even to them of what had been. To one coming into the
house there was the dear, calm, placid face so full of character, taking
a lively interest in everything, making such mistakes through imperfect
hearing as occasionally amused, always brimful of gratitude to God for
what He had done for her and hers - this was her theme. Beside her, as
she sat knitting, was a large print copy of the Psalms of David, also
some other devotional book, and the Bible.
But, now has the time come to die. Early in April came an attack of
Influenza; this caused such prostration that the 'once' sound frame
became weak and soon she had to take to her room, and here for six weeks
she suffered severe muscular pain day and night, but never a murmur.
Occasionally she prayed if it were His will to be taken home; also for
strength to enable her to bear the paroxysm when she felt it come on.
Surrounded by daughters and granddaughters, everything that loving hands
could do was done, but on the 7th June she passed into the presence of
Him whom she loved so long.
As she lived so she died. Here was a strong abiding confidence in the
Lord. She never doubted His wisdom, never questioned His dealings,
always acquiesced in His will; and now in the influence springing from
her long and useful life, she being dead yet speaketh.
Ted Solomon (son in law)
The North West Post, 9 June 1898
(Tasmania)
(Elizabeth Trebilcock, Forth Methodist Cemetery,
Died 7th Jun 1898, Age 83 years)
During the current year the last summons has come to many old and
respected residents of West Devon, particularly at the Forth where the
ranks of the pioneers have been sadly thinned. On Tuesday evening yet
another passed away, in the person of Mrs. Elizabeth Trebilcock, who
died at the residence of her daughter (Mrs. Thompson) at the ripe old
age of 84. Deceased, who in her comparative youth, some fifty years ago,
was left a widow with a large family of three sons and six daughters has
been a resident of Forth since the early days. All her children survive
her and all are honoured members of the communities in which they
reside. The deceased lady also leaves a number of grandchildren and
several great grand children. Three of the daughters are married to
Wesleyan ministers – one to the Rev. R. O. Cook, another to the Rev. W.
B. Matthews and the Rev. E. Nye, of New Norfolk, is a grandson of the
deceased. The funeral will leave the residence of the daughter of the
deceased, Mrs. P. Thompson, at 3 o’clock this afternoon, for the Forth
Wesleyan Cemetery.
Contributed by Michael Wadsley
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